There are two methods of realising what is beyond the nature of the changeable realm, to get aligned with nature again:

1. Accept everything as it is

2. Reject everything that is noticeable.

To learn about the two methods in details and bring them to pratice do read our spiritual articles.

Stay as Consciousness and you will see that actions are happening by themselves anyway. There's energy and the energy has to flow in a particular direction. The direction is also set, that's why they say it's all predestined. Destiny is already created. We're not creating anything new. 

Here is the article dedicated for you to stay as consciousness. 

Existence of the gunas is not in our control, these Tendencies exist in Prakurti – as a part of nature. Nature rules them. The one thing we do with them, is to engage in them. The moment we engage in any gunn, we create something of our own. We then need to take it to fruition as our effort gets involved. We get impacted by it.

Read out the full article here: Power of Observer 

The first step you can take is to stop seeking contentment through physical things. This is a better space. There will be things in the physical world, but knowing that contentment is within leads you to detachment from physical objects. Though there is a seeking space within you, you are not looking for contentment in physical things. There is an urge to seek but yet not attach anything. You are now one step closer to contentment.

Learn further about Inner pearce here : Inner Peace 

Our ideas of reality and interpretation of situations cause worry and confusion. Drop the ideas of how life should present itself and bring clarity to the richness of already existing life. 

Here are some zen stories that might help you to come out worries 

We are psychosomatic beings; meaning it’s the same matter vibrating at a range of frequency making one end gross (the body) and another end subtle (the mind). 

Negative and Positive are polar opposites and exist because of each other. Getting rid of negative from the mind needs removal of the positive too. This golden mean is powerful and peaceful.

To unlock our full potential we need to unlock the planes of thinking, emotions and energy. When all these three planes are aligned to the universal source within us, our full potential is released. Read the complete article: Powerful tool for being Unstoppable at Commitments

Just like by default dust gathers and images cannot be seen clearly, the mind gathers dust of concepts and clouds reality. Meditation helps us to live with clarity.